Earlier this year I found myself in a bit of a rut…
I was surrounded by not many people.
I’d had my head down, bum up working so hard! I am on this path that I love, but I also can see that not everyone understands what I’m choosing.
I was getting lots of comments from people pretty much suggesting ‘Fern, what are you doing? Why don’t you just go back to the safety of being a dentist??’
It’s really stumped me!!
If you’re out there right now, doing something that is different to everyone else around you, there are going to be people out there who are just going to want to pull you back down!
They just want you to conform.
It may be because they want the best for you in their own way. But a lot of the time, they are just scared of your light!
I started to reflect on my life.
I realised that I didn’t have circles of friends around me who understood what I was doing! People might understand one part of it, or another, but it was really hard to explain what I was doing and why I was doing it.
I couldn’t learn from them anymore.
I realised I had to let go of some old friendships to make room for new ones to come into my life.
Each day, I would sit, and during my morning ritual, I would actually have the intention that the Universe would bring me some people who would uplift and inspire me!
I knew I needed to change my friends circle.
Then I was invited to speak at an international conference in Salt Lake City.
I literally just ‘gelled’ with this amazing woman, Dr Val!
She is amazing. She was on point. She just got me. She was on the same level as me. She understood stuff without me even having to articulate it! She’s doing her own massive healing and is on her own journey where she is spreading her message.
It was just so empowering!
So here’s the thing. In order for you to call new people into your life, or new things…There is only so much room and energy that you have in your life, and you need to let go of the old energies.
The ones that pull you down. That make you feel so exhausted after you’ve spent time with them. Perhaps they don’t share your values anymore…
Sometimes in letting go, you make room for NEW things and people to come into your life.
If you keep holding so tightly onto people from the past that you know just don’t get you anymore, trying to make it work even when it’s a huge struggle, you are using all of your energy and you’ll have no room in your life to call new people in!
Let go of the struggle. Let them go with gratitude for the part they have played in your life.
It’s incredible what the Universe will bring you!
Call it in! Ask for it with your heart and soul.
I am so grateful to get to travel the world and meet incredible new people who understand my journey and are offering me their support!
Right now, who do you have to let go of? It’s not about letting go and never seeing them again, and creating a story about it…
You simply have to let go, and it will make room for new things to come your way.
Do it for yourself. Let go of the old and the new will come.